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Lessons from Aisha

August 2, 2010

This post is by Regina Yau, Founder and President of the Pixel Project. Please find the original post in its entirety below, and check out the Pixel Project’s website to learn more about this organization that works to end violence against women.

http://www.thepixelproject.net/2010/07/30/lessons-from-aisha-a-teachable-moment-on-standing-up-to-violence-against-women/

Aisha was sentenced to brutal disfigurement after fleeing her abusive in-laws. Image credit: Jodi Bieber-Institute for TIME

Time magazine’s most recent cover picture is possibly the most eloquent piece of journalism of 2010 and it is fitting that this portrait is one of the clearest illustrations of the global pandemic of violence against women.

As Richard Stengel, Managing Editor of Time magazine writes:

Our cover image this week is powerful, shocking and disturbing. It is a portrait of Aisha, a shy 18-year-old Afghan woman who was sentenced by a Taliban commander to have her nose and ears cut off for fleeing her abusive in-laws. Aisha posed for the picture and says she wants the world to see the effect a Taliban resurgence would have on the women of Afghanistan, many of whom have flourished in the past few years.

While Mr Stengel explains his decision to run Aisha’s portrait within the context of Time’s commitment to providing a truthful window into the war in Afghanistan, we can also extrapolate a different and more urgent set of messages from Aisha’s portrait:

Aisha’s courage and determination in the face of dangerous odds to share her face with the world highlights the urgency and importance of addressing and ending cultures that perpetuate violence against women, not just in Afghanistan, but around the world in all its forms.

Aisha’s face also offers irrefutable proof that violence against women has very real and damaging consequences for women’s health. It should be seen not just as a socio-economic issue, but also as a preventable global healthcare issue. As Mr Stengel reports, Aisha is currently in an undisclosed location undergoing facial reconstruction courtesy of the Grossman Burn Foundation. This extreme surgical operation is something that she would never have had to undergo had she not been subjected to the horror of having her nose and ears chopped off as punishment for being a woman who fled her abusive in-laws.

Most importantly, Aisha’s portrait is a powerful and visual Teachable Moment that inspires and galvanises all of us to work towards eliminating violence against women wherever we are in the world and with whatever skills and tools we have at hand. Men and women alike need to realise that it is only by working together that we will be able to end violence against women worldwide. It doesn’t matter how small or how major an action is – every action to prevent or stop violence against women and girls is yet another step towards ending it…

You could be:

  • A teacher taking it upon yourself to teach the boys in your class to respect women and girls;
  • A passerby stepping in to stop a rape;
  • A neighbor calling the police when you hear domestic violence happening next door;
  • A father intervening to prevent your daughter from undergoing female genital mutilation;
  • A brother stopping other men from eve-teasing your sister.

Just do it – take action. It all adds up. Together – and only together –  can we change things for millions of women worldwide, some of whom live in your neighbourhood, work round the corner from your office or even are part of your family.

After all, if Aisha can find it in her to publicly share her face and her pain to open up a window into the atrocities endured by her Afghan sisters, we can all do our bit to end gender-based violence in our own corner of the world.

Aisha’s courage offers a ray of hope that things can change for the better despite the atrocities women face worldwide. Check out what Time magazine photographer Jodi Bieber captures by focusing on Aisha’s beauty and refusing to portray her as a victim when she took Aisha’s portrait.

To read more about Afghan women and the return of the Taliban, go here.

Stuck for ideas on what you can do to contribute to ending violence against women? Check out The Pixel Project’s Community Buzz pages. Possible activities include:

3 Comments
  1. Amy Littlefield permalink*
    August 2, 2010 1:53 pm

    Since the U.S. invaded Afghanistan in 2001, the “liberation” of Afghan women from the Taliban has been used as justification for the murder of countless civilians — men, women and children — and the deaths of almost 2,000 soldiers. TIME magazine’s headline, “What Happens if We Leave Afghanistan,” perpetuates the myth that the U.S. is somehow improving life for Afghan women by occupying their country. As Afghan feminists like Malalai Joya have insisted, occupation by the United States has made the situation worse for women, and the current U.S.-backed government has tried to pass laws that permit rape and allow men to deny food to their wives if they refuse sexual demands. Tom Scocca of Slate wrote of the TIME cover, “A correct and accurate caption would be ‘What Is Still Happening, Even Though We Are in Afghanistan.'”

    • seemantinibose permalink
      August 3, 2010 2:42 am

      I totally agree. USA has put up this facade for a long time now. Hey, we all know the truth…Uncle Sam listening?

  2. vocaleyes permalink
    August 5, 2010 12:26 am

    I think that the picture is powerful, influential, and important — as a tool to combat violence against women. However, TIME has manipulated it to be a justification for the United States to maintain an occupation of Afghanistan. A war that was once waged to gun down Osama Bin Laden is suddenly liberating women? Wake up and smell the bull shit.

    TIME is another disgusting mainstream media corporation that is not covering power, but covering up for power. Through manipulating this image they pushing a specific agenda by objectifying another woman’s tragedy and abuse.

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